Forgiveness is a transformative act because it asks you to be a more empathetic and compassionate person, thereby making you better than the person you were when you were first hurt.

They tell us the only way to move on is to forget.“Forgive,” they say.Realise that you deserve better.That maybe they deserve better.You can't fight fire with fire.Extinguish it once and for all."Do not look back," they say.They don't tell you that only one thing is needed. Only one:love.When you are filled to the brim with love,you only emanate love.You become lover and love itself.Only then will you love even the very people you wish to hate.

It is your ego that needs to explain itself. The self just is.

Why wait to forgive and let go only after you have sufficiently wallowed in your despair? Why not forgive and let go now?

Know this: whenever you think of leaving, a part of you has already left. But it’s never too late to get it back.