Your past and your pain will certainly impact you,but they don’t have to define you. You get to write your own definition.

Maybe you're holding on too tight, and the magic comes in letting go.

We can't always know why things happen the way they happen, or why a person makes the choices they do. Knowing why isn't necessary to move forward, unless we make it so.You may never find out why. Don’t let that keep you from moving on with your life.

If you’ve given your all, and it's still not working, it's likely time to move on.