42 Quotes by Annette Vaillancourt

Guilt is a waste of time unless you learn how to be more loving the next time a similar situation presents itself.

I tend to view synchronicities as proof that I am on the right path. It’s like a pat on the back from God.

I am startled by how resistant people are to doing anything nice or nurturing for themselves, especially women. They fear being selfish. This intense clinging to a martyr role doesn’t serve anyone. It makes you brittle, not resilient.

When you truly love yourself, you are enough. Your happiness and well-being become a top priority

Self-love is meant to be your foundation. It is your birthright. Once you get it – once you really feel what it is like to love yourself… to fall in love with yourself – you might never want to leave this stage.

The more we seek love, the more it eludes us. …And when we give up our attachment to the outcome of our loving, then real Love can flow. The more we consciously choose to extend Love, the more Love we have.

Real love is an expression of the best of you and others. It’s moving, profound and essentially very simple at the same time.

You can’t fake your way into an authentic, soul-deep relationship.

There is nothing virtuous about giving exclusively, especially in a relationship. If you are only the giver, then your relationships will be one-sided; there will be no energetic interplay that energizes you as a couple.