111 Quotes by Cathy Burnham Martin

Fairness is dealt out fairly.

Don't let Discouragers sour our souls.

Once motivated, we likely perform better and succeed faster when we receive encouragement.

Positive choices made repeatedly become seemingly automatic.

When we forgive, especially under the most difficult circumstances, we grow and evolve as people.

Discouragers see the gloom in every room, the cloud on every silver lining, and the problem in front of every situation.

Whether we know it or choose to admit it, we are either an Encourager or a Discourager. We each make a choice as to which type we will be… every day. Discouragers bring “stresspools.”I call any of those places that add unnecessary stress and aggravation “stresspools.” They are just as stinky and rotten as cesspools, but “stresspools” wreak of tension, strain, anxiety, worry, hassle, pressure, and emotional trauma.

It matters not which partner is bringing negativity into conversations and exchanges. Toxicity has no place at all between people who have promised to love each other.

Skip the urge to respond to a road rage invitation. I find that my days are far more smooth and pleasant when I don’t give someone the leverage to annoy or stress me. Just smile, giggle to yourself, or wave “hi” with a wag of your pinky finger, if you must. But then the incident is over, and no stress or annoyance remains, at least not in my car. The self-centered driver has the negative attitude. Don’t let someone else’s poor behavior choices become contagious.