64 Quotes by David W. Earle LPC- Love is Not Enough

Change is hard, difficult, painful, and often messy

Being real is being true to you.

People pay a dear price when not dealing with the powerful emotions.

We violated each other’s boundaries with verbal missiles of anger disguised in the pretense of “just kidding.

Swirling in a squirrel cage of perpetual motion, the head-committee meets, argues, votes out the guidance available from emotions, and successfully keeps serenity at bay and chaos close at hand.

When this low self-worth is hidden, one can understand why the person becomes hypersensitive to the opinions of others and has a great deal of difficulty accepting criticism no matter how warranted or gently said.

This is what we desire in intimate relationships but this deep connection is often so frightful that most do not take advantage of the opportunities presented for honesty.

It is one thing to know about your dysfunctional habits but quite another to change them.

Many of the habits of dysfunctional families use are not from the lack of love but are the result of fear. Knowing the love-limiting habits and behaviors of dysfunctional families is a wonderful beginning to lower the fear, allowing us to be real, allowing us all to learn how to love better.