33 Quotes by Deborah King

I urge people to get in touch with how you really feel, and don’t lie to yourself. Absolutely don’t. You may not necessarily be able to change something right now, but you need to know how you really feel.

Write down how you really feel, not how you wish you felt or how you think you should feel, but how you really feel. Don’t try to change it. Honor it: “This is how I feel.” Express it, and then it’s not suppressed and stored somewhere in your liver or somewhere else.

One of the first things I do with people is help them figure out what their limiting beliefs are and then encourage them to question, “Well, do I really want to keep that one? Is it limiting me? Does it not fit me? Is it holding me back?”

When people tell me they’re trying to meditate, I always know they don’t have a format yet that works. I encourage a real meditative format that you use daily, because meditation is incremental and it only works if done every day.

That’s like buying asparagus and then leaving it at the checkout. Why would you do that?

We all have various ways of dropping in and getting connected to ourselves. For one person it might be playing basketball. It’s a good way to get in touch with how they feel. For somebody else, it might be taking a walk.