54 Quotes by Erik Erikson

Hope is both the earliest and the most indispensable virtue inherent in the state of being alive. If life is to be sustained hope must remain, even where confidence is wounded, trust impaired.

The sense of identity provides the ability to experience one's self as something that has continuity and sameness, and to act accordingly.

Children cannot be fooled by empty praise and condescending encouragement. They may have to accept artificial bolstering of their self-esteem in lieu of something better, but what I call their accruing ego identity gains real strength only from wholehearted and consistent recognition of real accomplishment, that is, achievement that has meaning in their culture.

There is in every child at every stage a new miracle of vigorous unfolding.

The richest and fullest lives attempt to achieve an inner balance between three realms: work, love and play.

Adolescents need freedom to choose, but not so much freedom that they cannot, in fact, make a choice.

I am what survives of me.

We are what we love.

Babies control and bring up their families as much as they are controlled by them; in fact the family brings up baby by being brought up by him.