331 Quotes by Gary Chapman

People tend to criticize their spouse most loudly in the area where they themselves have the deepest emotional need.

True love cannot begin until the in-love experience has run its course. We cannot take credit for the kind and generous things we do while under the influence of the obsession.

I think the tingles are important. They are real, and I am in favor of their survival. But they are not the basis for a satisfactory marriage. I am not suggesting that on should marry without the tingles. Those warm, excited feelings, the chill bumps, that sense of acceptance, the excitement of the touch that make up the tingles serve as the cherry on top of the sundae. But you cannot have a sundae with only the cherry.

Often we fail to consider the fact that our social, spiritual, and intellectual interests are miles apart. Our value systems and goals are contradictory, but we are in love.

** إن فهم اللغات الخمس للحب وتعلم كيفية التحدث باللغة الاساسية للحب لشريك حياتك من الممكن أن يؤثر بشكل كبير على سلوك الزوج أو الزوجة فإن الناس يتصرفون بشكل مختلف عندما يكون خزان الحب لديهم ممتلئا.

The author stipulates that while television lately background noise for a child, it tends to shift to the foreground for the adult. The adult pays enough attention to the media attention is paid to the child.

The deepest human need is the need to feel appreciated. Words of affirmation will meet that need in many individuals.إن أعمق حاجه للإنسان هي حاجته للإحساس بالتقدير

All of us blossom when we feel loved and wither when we do not feel loved.

The decision to get married will impact one's life more deeply than almost any decision in life. Yet people continue to rush into marriage with little or no preparation for making a marriage successful. In fact, many couples give far more attention to making plans for the wedding than making plans for marriage. The wedding festivities last only a few hours, while the marriage, we hope, will last for a lifetime