685 Quotes by Iyanla Vanzant

Life doesn't have to be hard, life is on your side.

The way to achieve your own success is to be willing to help somebody else get it first.

For most of my life, I believed that my father had broken many of my bones. They were emotional and psychological bones; things no one could see, things that caused me to limp through life clutching for and holding on to people and situations that often rendered me immobile.

There are going to be moments today you don't like me. You'll get over it.

We all want to be liked, loved, or needed. That is fine. What is not fine is what we are willing to do to make sure we are liked, or loved or needed. When we make the needs and wants of others a priority in our lives, we devalue ourselves.

Never judge your clarity based on someone else's response.

Comparison is an act of violence against the self.

When I say to you, sister-woman, 'You out of order', that isn't an attack on you. I know what I'm looking at. I'm looking at your life, and I see what's there.

It's time for you to move, realizing that the thing you are seeking is also seeking you.