685 Quotes by Iyanla Vanzant

When we believe we are losing control, we grab on tight. When our greatest fear comes upon us, we clench our fist and teeth, close our eyes and hold on. We must learn how to let go. When the time comes for growth and change, we must have the courage and faith to let go. Whatever leaves my life makes room for something better.

Comparing yourself to others is an act of violence against your authentic self.

When your way doesn't work, don't be disheartened. You must be willing to try another way. A closed door doesn't mean you have been cut off permanently. It is a challenge, an obstacle, a tool to be used.

What keeps us from achieving our heart's desires is not anything outside of us, it's the conflict inside.

In all relationships, regardless of their nature, there comes that moment when you understand that there are some things you will never understand. When you are standing in that moment, just be right with it.

When was the last time you thanked you for always being there for you? Self appreciation soothes an aching soul.

People you don't love can't hurt you.

You have set standards for how you want to be treated and what you expect from yourself and for yourself.

Never underestimate the ruthlessness of the ego to keep you in a state of suffering in which you voluntarily participate.