293 Quotes by Jennifer Weiner

With motherhood and marriage there was no finish line, no hour or day or year when you got to say you were through. Life just went on and on, endless and formless, with no performance evaluation, no raises or feedback or two weeks’ vacation.

When your mom and I were your age, there weren’t a lot of options for girls. Like, you know how your mother’s always telling you that you can be anything you want to be when you grow up? That wasn’t what we heard. Men could be doctors or lawyers. We were just supposed to marry them.

There was a parallel universe that ran alongside the normal world, and if you went through the wrong door, or turned left instead of right, ran up the street instead of down it, you could accidentally push the curtain aside and end up in that other place, where everything was different and everything was wrong. That.

You have to open yourself up to the universe’s possibilities.

It’s just you and the track and the clock. It’s the most elemental thing there is-the simplest and the hardest. No everybody is cut out for it.

She felt a great, impotent rage sweep through her, fury at the war, and the politicians who’d sent so many young men to be maimed or killed.

Do not postpone life until two pounds form now. Go on the trip. Wear the strapless dress. Go zip lining, or water-skiing, or swimming with the dolphins. None of us are guaranteed a future. Putting ff joy until you’re the right size could mean you’ll never experience it at all.

I wouldn’t be able to write about this for my blog or instagram stories. Not anytime soon at least. Not while it was still so raw. It hurt. And nobody wanted unvarnished pain omg their feed unless it was served up with a side dish of uplift or some kind of lesson.

I’m not brave all the time. No one is. We’ve all been disappointed; we’ve all had our hearts broken, and we’re all just doing our best. Make sure you have people who love you, the real you, not the Instagram you. If you can’t be brave, pretend to be brave, and if you can’t do that yet, know that you aren’t alone. Everyone you see is struggling. Nobody has it all figured out.