164 Quotes by Miya Yamanouchi

If you notice yourself viewing a potential partner as a “work in progress”, that’s a sign to find someone else.

Women aren’t my competition because male attention and sexual objectification are not prizes for me.

So many amazing opportunities arise when a chapter of our life ends. When we resign from a job that we weren’t happy in, or even get fired, it’s actually a blessing because a better experience is waiting to happen. It’s all about perspective.

I define me. You don’t.

The problem with depicting abusers as full-time monsters is that when a person is actually experiencing abuse in their own life, they’ll think “oh but he’s the sweetest guy most of the time so he can’t be an abuser ” or “but he’s not ALWAYS horrible, he’s usually amazing, so he’s not an abuser”, and they’ll make the mistake of thinking they mustn’t really be being abused when they actually are.

Even if we have ourselves so fully convinced that we are on the right track because we desperately want to believe that the specific direction we have chosen is the “correct one”, if the universe disagrees with our choices, it will not be shy in telling us so.

Mothering your man is not sexy for you or for him. If you want your man to “start being a man”, start being his lover not his mother.

You can always evaluate a man’s character by the way he speaks about his ex girlfriends and other women. When entering a new relationship or getting close with a new guy, make sure you take notice of the language he uses when referring to other girls.

Both men and women experience pressure to conform to social standards of attractiveness. Men to look strong and be tough, women to look pretty and soft. Men to be masculine, women to be feminine. Men get judged for being “too feminine”, women get criticized for being “too masculine”. Gender policing affects us all.