141 Quotes by Robert Holden

Contrary to popular belief, time does not heal, time does not fly, time does not do anything. Time has no consciousness. It does nothing for you. The key to happiness now is what you choose to do with your time right now. Are you, right now, making the most valuable use of your time? This moment is, after all, the time of your life. Your choices are what make each moment.

The most damaging erroneous belief about happiness is, of course, that happiness is somewhere else – that is, that it is not with you.

It also reflects a tendency in our society to focus on negatives. Doctors, for instance, study illness, not health. Business leaders analyse failure, not success. Economists study cost, not value. Philosophers mostly debate original sin, not original blessing.

I ask you to consider that the goal of your life is not just to find love; it is to be love. Love is the real work of your life.

Those that go searching for love only make manifest their own lovelessness, and the loveless never find love, only the loving find love, and they never have to seek for it. D. H. Lawrence1.

To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.” David Viscott.