1,304 Quotes by Shannon L. Alder

To be a strong and empathetic person always requires us to trust that God will send angels to the people's heart we tried to reach, but couldn't.

Many victims of narcissistic abuse are hypersensitive. They don't want to be told by others that they wrong when they fight with their narcissist. They see it as standing up for themselves, when in reality it is perpetuating what the narcissist wants- drama and a reaction.

Many victims of narcissistic abuse are hypersensitive. They don't want to be told by others that they wrong when they fight with their narcissist. They see it as standing up for themselves, when in reality it perpetuating what the narcissist wants- drama and a reaction.

When you understand what love is you will understand that mercy and forgiveness feels better than any form of revenge.

No one ever gets mad at being shamed by someone unless some shame is felt.

Maybe, it is not the thorn on the rose that we should see, but the beauty of the gesture.

The day your soul has died is the day you don’t care about anyone’s pain, unless it builds you up or makes you richer.

Unique is what one person does alone. What is not unique is what others have to collaborate on.

Forgiveness doesn't mean the person that hurt you was released from God's justice. It simply means you no longer need to carry the anger from what they done because you see it wasn't about you really. It was about how they grew up, their past, their values and their way of surviving that falls outside common decency. You just happened to be the person they put all of their past hurts on and blamed. You were in the wrong place at the wrong time.