1,304 Quotes by Shannon L. Alder

You’re only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows.

They say time heals and makes us forget, but what two people shared can never be erased.

Your tears are never invisible – there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point them out.

Realize that narcissists have an addiction disorder. They are strongly addicted to feeling significant. Like any addict they will do whatever it takes to get this feeling often. That is why they are manipulative and future fakers. They promise change, but can’t deliver if it interferes with their addiction. That is why they secure back up supply.

You know your testimony is strong when your roots are so deep that other people’s storms will never knock you over.

If you’re going to love someone or something then don’t be a slow leaking faucet – -be a hurricane.

Judgement is always based on experience and sometimes you will battle a person’s history first, before commonsense will ever win the war.

You don’t give up on people you truly love. Whether they are in your life or stand on the edge of your heart, you want them to be happy. This is the truest kind of love because it gives more than it ever receives.

It’s a sad day when your iPhone becomes a horcrux, witches hunt your soul and you have to seek the resurrection stone just to find yourself. I was hardly Harry Potter. There was no lightening bolt on my forehead, but if you knew my life you would have met a storm.