215 Quotes by Stephanie Coontz

Rising inequality has changed family dynamics for all socioeconomic groups.

In my work as a historian and in my relationships as a friend, teacher, wife, and mother, I have come to think that the most useful way to understand the past and make it work for you is to look at the trade-offs and contradictions that, however deeply buried, can be uncovered in every memory, good or bad.

Some people may long for an era when divorce was still hard to come by. The spread of no-fault divorce has reduced the bargaining power of whichever spouse is more interested in continuing the relationship. And the breakup of such marriages has caused pain for many families.

Our goal should be to develop work-life policies that enable people to put their gender values into practice. So let's stop arguing about the hard choices women make and help more women and men avoid such hard choices.

Economically as well as emotionally, modern marriage has become like an affluent gated community. It has become harder for low-income Americans to enter and sustain.

Social and economic policies constructed around the male breadwinner model have always disadvantaged women.

Couples need time alone to renew their relationship. They also need to sustain supportive networks of friends and family.

The place where we keep our clothes isn't always the only place where we keep our commitments.