140 Quotes by W. Anton

It is best if your compliments are actually about her, such as how interesting she is, how good she makes you feel, how much fun she is to be around, and so on, rather than any of her accessories. Anyone can notice a pair of earrings, for example, but you are not really interested in them anyway.

Second, none of us consciously decides what traits attract us sexually or who we are attracted to. Attraction is an emotion, not a conscious decision.

Unfortunately, the more indirect a male is, the more feminine he appears, making him less attractive to women.

You must never put them on a pedestal if it would cause them to look down on you, as it usually tends to do. Although women love to be admired and appreciated, they still want a man to look up to, not down upon, a man who deems himself important enough to deserve the best, including the best women. He would be insulting them otherwise, not honoring them.

Women are lovely, but they are still human beings, not divine goddesses that require offerings, sacrifices, entertainment, or gifts from you, so you have to treat them in a realistic fashion.

They reject themselves. It is what you do when you see a gorgeous girl but then think to yourself, “I could never get a girl like that” and walk away even though the woman did not actually reject you.

You should also create this same proud presence in the way you walk. Women keep their knees close together as they step forward and appear the most feminine when they put each foot on a straight line right before the other, but men keep their feet further apart when they walk. To walk with a slight swagger is both masculine and the practice of a male with high self-esteem.

Thus, to be nice to women means to understand what women want and give it to them. This is not how “nice guys” treat women, however.

However, to persist does not mean to cling on forever, to stalk, or to come back despite a woman requesting otherwise – only desperate males do that – but it does mean to keep going until you either get what you want or are rejected.