It's the golden glint of a kind heart that nourishes the fabric of society, not the scorching heat of argumentation.

Responsibility makes you act and debate makes you blame each other.

I’d rather lose an argument to the person I love, than win the argument and lose the person.

See past all arguments - all thesis and anti-thesis - all opposites, and only then true productive insight of a phenomenon or a situation would manifest in your mind.