Whatever you focus on is where you are putting your energy. If you focus on having problems, your energy will go towards having problems. If you focus on having solutions, your energy will go towards having solutions. Are you focusing on the right things?

Set intentions before you take action. Blind action is sometimes worse than no action at all. Think before you act.

Don't react. Respond instead. Exercise some forethought into what you're about to say and do.