You will go from being the narcissist's greatest asset to becoming their greatest burden.

The only good decision you will make while with them is leaving!

During the discard phase the ignoring and silences that the narcissist uses and the cold hateful stares send coldness to your very spirit. Fire turns to ice,love to hate, attention to abandonment. It stays with you that malignant cruelty.

Narcissists withhold affection to punish you. Withhold attention to get revenge. And withhold an emotional empathetic response to make you feel insecure.

The worst lies were the lies I told myself about the lies others told me