In any game, the game itself is the prize, no matter who wins, ultimately both lose the game.

Debating is an ability of making a point without abusing an opponent.

Those who can't match you will malign you.

I don't consider those competitions fair where judges get to decide the winner, because selected judges quite often are not worthy or qualified enough to make the right decision.

If you are a winner by the judgements of few judges and not by your performance, you are not a real winner.