Life wants you to know that feelings are more important than facts, and you should never hurt someone just to be right.

Your suffering needs to be respected. Don't try to ignore the hurt, because it is real. Just let the hurt soften you instead of hardening you. Let the hurt open you instead of closing you. Let the hurt send you looking for those who will accept you instead of hiding from those who reject you.

Even when someone hurts you, you choose how to struggle, resist, deny and receive.

Brute force will sometimes get you through a challenge, but usually not without hurting and depleting yourself in the process.

Hurts are just alerts, to rise above through love.