Don't let a Discourager's negativity creep into your thought. Remember, they are looking for the worst possible outcomes.

Encouragers turn mountains into molehills. Discouragers turn molehills into mountains.

We can harness positive power by remembering.

People gravitate to possibility thinkers. That creates win-win scenarios all day long.

Fairness is dealt out fairly.

Positive choices made repeatedly become seemingly automatic.

Whether we know it or choose to admit it, we are either an Encourager or a Discourager. We each make a choice as to which type we will be… every day. Discouragers bring “stresspools.”I call any of those places that add unnecessary stress and aggravation “stresspools.” They are just as stinky and rotten as cesspools, but “stresspools” wreak of tension, strain, anxiety, worry, hassle, pressure, and emotional trauma.

It matters not which partner is bringing negativity into conversations and exchanges. Toxicity has no place at all between people who have promised to love each other.

No one needs to be around someone who dulls the shine on a brand new penny.