Sex with a stranger makes you feel decadent, a risk taker, young again. Sex with a stranger is life on the edge. Everything else is life wrapped in cotton wool.

Each stranger is like an unexplored continent whose depths you want to explore before you plant your flag in his heart.

All girls have sex with a stranger fantasies and fantasies played out are healthier than those that have been left to fester and go mouldy. When we look back, we don’t regret the things we have done, only the things left undone, the things we wanted to do and never did.

Look in the mirror. Half close your eyes. Pretend you are an old lady and ask yourself if you had the chance again to have sex with a stranger would you take it?

We have that feeling that life could have been other, different, better in a way impossible to articulate, yet we sense there was another road we missed.