When would marrying be great? If only one out of thousands is able to get married. But everyone gets married, so what is a big deal?

All these people get married for happiness, but the poor people become miserable within. That is because it is not under one’s control whether to be happy or miserable. It is dependent on the effect of one’s past deeds (karma). One has no choice. One has to endure them.

There is a very big 'college' about how a man and a woman should interact with each other after marriage. However, people get married without 'studying'.

Where does the problem arise in adjusting? ‘She is the one I married, she is my wife’. Hey! but she is not a ‘wife’. When he is not a ‘husband’, how can there be a wife then?

One cannot do without a husband. As much need does one have to relieve herself, that much need one has for a husband. One can bear her husband going out of town for couple of days, but one cannot bear not going to relieve herself. One would look for whatever the need is. One will even search for a kitchen. How meaningless beliefs one has had in such a world?

One who does not allow discord [with the wife] to happen even for a minute is considered a [true] husband. Look after this relationship in the same way that you would not allow the relationship with a friend to spoil. If you do not look after your relationship with your friend, then the friendship will break.

When is one considered to have learnt to become a husband? It is when the wife continuously experiences veneration (respect) for him.

How long will your acting as a husband (being boss of the wife) last? As long as you are not at fault.

Husband’ means ‘wife’ of a ‘wife’. But people have become husbands. Hey! Is the ‘wife’ going to become a Husband?