And I went into the new year loving myself a little less, but a little more where it actually mattered.

Maybe the problem isn’t everything and everyone around you, but what lies within you.

I became to understand you and all of you.

I didn’t know what it was, who I was or who he was. I just knew what we could have become as one.

You can’t just be. You have to become.

You have to grow. You have to be. You have to love yourself unconditionally.

I don’t suffer. I venture to understand it and when I can’t, I let it vacation until I overcome it.

Give second chances, third chances, but not a fourth, a fifth, a sixth and so on. Appreciate yourself and understand your worth – know it takes time for people to change, to become better. But know what you can take and what you deserve.

Sometimes relationships aren’t meant to be forever. We stumble upon one another to learn, to love, to appreciate and become who we’re supposed to be.