Don’t sabotage yourchance for happiness.Own up to the real choicesyou are making.

Choose to be happy.It’s the only sensible option!

So many of life’s eventualitiesare beyond your control.Work out what things you caninfluence and come to a peacefulacceptance of the rest.

Choose your battles wisely.Unless you have a very highchance of victory, spare yourenergy and walk away

Don’t be attached to outcomes.Enjoy your experiences for whatthey are, what you have gainedand what you have learned.

Unless you have a crystal ballyou don’t know how thefuture is going to unfold.Focus on the things you caninfluence and don’t fretover the rest.

No matter how much youcare about someone,you can’t take responsibilityfor their happiness.

You can’t make someonedo something just becauseyou want them to.What you do have, however,is the opportunity toinfluence their choices.

Being a control freakis a sign of a vulnerableself-esteem. The betteryou feel about yourselfthe less you need to controleverything around you.