If we become aware that someone is sending thoughts of ill will in our direction, we do not argue with the apparent reality of malice. To do so would give it more substance. We remove the personal sense of ourself and the other person.

Do we find ourself or does our self get demolished?

Most of our problems would be gone if we stopped saying three, little words. What about me?

You have loved me and so I leave part of myself here with you.