4 Quotes by Dr. Sandra Smith-Hanen about intimacy

  • Author Dr. Sandra Smith-Hanen
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    The AVP’s ambivalence extends to displaying affection. They can at once show interest and then shut this interest off when the spouse responds more intimately. The spouse is left with feelings of disappointment and discouragement, annoyance, and confusion.

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  • Author Dr. Sandra Smith-Hanen
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    In their effort to avoid conflicts, they have avoided intimacy. They can feel numb to a spouse’s needs. Messages become jumbled and can eventually almost stop being taken in by the AVP.

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