So much of how we see the world is the matter of interpretation. A matter of wishing and hoping rather than really deep-down believing.

So I guess what I’m trying to say is that life is fast. And it keeps speeding up. Sometimes I lose track of the season—or even the year. And we just have to make the best of it all.

Our choices. Our fleeting moments together.

I have a fleeting fantasy of telling her that procreation isn't a contest, any more than SAT scores and making the cheerleading squad and getting into a good college and all the other things, both big and small, that she turned into a contest when Janie and I were young, going all the way back to whose baby teeth came in first, according to my mother.

What appeals to you the most is the very thing that will drive you crazy