Thinking of others isn't a problem as long as you don't fall into the trap of giving and never asking for anything in return from the people you're networking with.

Plant seeds for your future by pursuing an interest or hobby outside of work.Connect the dots by pairing the skills and information you learn while investing in yourself with people in your network.

You must find time to invest in yourself and your career. This isn't selfish - it will also be good for the company you work for because you'll add extra value.

I asked Alicia to think about the people she knew whose work she admired.