More than any other attribute of Jesus, his humility is the key to a healthy marriage. If two people make it their goal to imitate the humility of Christ, everything else will take care of itself.

Lukewarm living and claiming Christ's name simultaneously is utterly disgusting to God.

You must determine your goal. What matters most? Winning arguments? Or resembling Christ? Even in the heat of an argument we should be asking ourselves if we are acting like Christ.

Just as you did not come to Christ on your own, neither will you remain in Christ on your own.