Recognizing not only intellectually but psychologically and physically, through laughter, that we are not the only ones feeling such a range of emotions makes us feel less alone, provides a renewed sense of perspective, allows us to hit an emotional “reset” button and can relieve stress.

Here’s to looking every new mother in the eye, not just smiling at the baby, and asking her “How are YOU?”Here’s to listening for her answer.

When someone genuinely laughs with you, it’s proof that you share a certain internal space. And that’s not so lonely after all.

More than anything else, I wanted not to be alone — yet all my actions guaranteed I’d be lonely. Like wearing a vest of explosives when you’re coming in for a hug, insatiable need is a form of sabotage.

The holidays make her feel as if she’s supposed to be in a cuddle, since everybody else suddenly seems paired off, like mittens, slippers or AA batteries.

A stark sense of isolation encloses anyone who looks outward for validation.