When you judge or criticize someone else, take a long look in the mirror, for what you judge in others is really reflecting something about you

Loving yourself first fills your own heart with love. If there is no love in your heart, then how can you give love?

When you give a gift, give it freely when you receive a gift receive it graciously, no strings attached and no expectations of something in return. It is not a gift if there is attachment or expectation.