I've thought often about why - why?! - anyone, especially other women, would try to disrupt feminist work that combats violence. What in the world could be the point of that? The only reason I've come up with, and I think it makes sense, is fear of becoming that "impure" woman.

You're not too fat. You're not too loud. You're not too smart. You're not unladylike. There is nothing wrong with you.