Appearing to pay attention when someone is speaking is one of the cornerstones of real social interaction.

The truly essential bargain between host and guest requires the guest only to respond promptly, show up on time, socialize with other guests, thank the host, write additional thanks and reciprocate. You needn't bring anything.

The underlying principles of manners- respect, fairness, and congeniality.

The way one was brought up isn't an excuse for rude behavior.

Question- Should I loan a small amount of money to a friend? Answer- If you are sure that you can, if necessary, spare both.

There are always proper responses, even to rude questions.

There is no etiquette rule that decrees one must give out personal information to anyone who asks.

Try not to annoy your relatives unnecessarily.

We are all entitled to our little harmless habits, but we are not entitled to demand approval for them.