Before you abandon your partner, ask yourself what is missing and see if you can reach down inside your own heart and bring it forth. Faith. Light. Unconditional Love. It is there, hiding perhaps underneath a dark historic shroud of anger, disappointment, shame or resentment. You will find the hidden treasure if you want to. It is all inside of you.

Like walking in the darkness--When you walk there long enough,You adjust to it. You forget how dark it is.Then, a glimpse of day! How bright he is!Illuminating everything,My love, my life, my light.But all too soon the curtain fallsBringing back the darkened night.Unaccustomed to it now.Where once it was a peaceful place,It seems as dark as dark can be.Never quite as comfortableOn this strange familiar pathFumbling in the dark and watching nowFor new light to help me find my way.

How is it you can feel you love someone when you hardly know them and how do you stop loving them once you do?

Humans are funny. The more someone doesn’t want someone, the more that someone wants that someone. The time came when she started pulling away. She had developed a tendency to focus on the things that she didn’t respect in him and eventually that’s all she saw.

You change for two reasons. Either you learn enough that you want to or you've been hurt enough that you have to.