Don't be a passenger in your own life.

Life is too short to be trying to change water into wine. The goal is to find someone who (already is) what you want.

Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart.

There is no amount of communication or work that can overcome being with someone who does not want what you want.

There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships; we either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have.