Women who hate the notion of being desirable to their men, in essence, deprive themselves of the greatest opportunity to experience the beauty and richness of the world of romance. Of course, it also depends on the caliber of the men they pick. If you choose a man who is sensually in the dark, chances are he may not bring much to the table in terms of romance.

When you begin to claim someone as your man or woman, that's normally when you start to lose your ability to overwhelm them with desire.

Many people wonder what it means or feels like to go deep. For me, DEEP means finding new adventures within your soul. It's a spiritual affair. It's about NOT being ashamed of who you are. And it feels like... well, drowning in sensory pleasure or worship.

To absolutely live a sensual lifestyle does not mean doing anything just to feel alive, but it's feeling so alive that you can do just about anything.

You want a man who will desire you, perhaps even way more that he claims to love you.

When you make sexiness your priority you make it difficult for your man to take you for granted quiet so easily.

People fear sensuality simply because they don't know its actual purpose. But, please, don't be ignorant my friend: Sensuality was NOT intended to make life sinful, but rather beautiful, rich and delicious.

I talk a lot about the value of lust in my book. No, don't freak out! The concept is simply about helping you understand the psychology of being an irresistible woman. There is more to life when we learn how to see lust as a tool of wisdom rather than as the devil's most favorite weapon to deceive and destroy the world. This is the next level of thinking. Are you ready for a paradigm shift?

If more women were willing to be goddesses, I believe more men would be obliged to be gentlemen. In fact, it would just happen naturally.