A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.

Look around you at the people you spend the most time with and realize that your life can’t rise any higher than your friendships.

If a man WANTS to be with you, he will make his actions clear. There won’t be any questions, murkiness, cloudiness, or fear.

Sit your affections, your heart and your precious time out on the doorstep without so much as making him ring the doorbell first, and he’ll treat you like a doormat. Make him work a little to get next to you, and he won’t stop til you’re his.

It is necessary, and even vital, to set standards for your life and the people you allow in it.

It's a lot harder to get someone OUT of your life than it is to let them IN, so please…be selective.

Stop inviting people who don't celebrate you to your party! It's YOUR life - you have the right to be exclusive.

Here's a glorious thought: You don't have to settle. Ever. In life, in love, in your career…ANYWHERE!

Someone out there is looking for exactly what you've got…and will never try and undercut your value or question your worth. Some things in life just can’t be bartered over or placed on the sale rack – and your self-worth is at the top of the list.