Apa pun masalah Anda, konsepnya selalu sama: selesaikan masalah; lalu berbahagialah. Sayangnya, bagi banyak orang, rasanya hidup tidak sesederhana itu.

Life is essentially an endless series of problems. The solution to one problem is merely the creation of another.

There is so much pressure in the West to be likable that people often reconfigure their entire personality depending on the person they’re dealing with.

Happiness comes from the same thing: caring about something greater than yourself, believing that you are a contributing component in some much larger entity, that your life is but a mere side process of some great unintelligible production.

The problem is that giving too many fucks is bad for your mental health

The point isn't to get away from the shit. The point is to find the shit you enjoy dealing with.

That means the more something threatens to change how you view yourself, how successful/unsuccessful you believe yourself to be, how well you see yourself living up to your values, the more you will avoid ever getting around to doing it.

There's a certain comfort that comes with knowing how you fit in the world. Anything that shakes up that comfort- even if it could potentially make your life better- is inherently scary.

If it feels like it's you versus the world, chances are it's really just you versus yourself.