You first have something and then nothing.

If you are going to have, you need to be willing to lose.

Loss means separateness.

Every second of life is reminding you that you are going to lose. So you decide that it’s better not to have.

Every second of life reminds you that you are going to lose. So you decide that it’s better not to have to begin with. 

Because you are not willing to lose, you are losing.

There is a bigger creation that follows a loss. And the new creation is because of the loss.

If someone gives you something, you can lose. If you can create it, you can never lose.

Validate the willingness not the action.