The lie behind a problem is, “I am not the creator.” You are just unwilling to admit you are the creator of your problem.

If you are totally willing to accept that you are never effect, you will never lose.

The reward is the ability to extract effort. 

The most important question is, “How can I increase the effort I exert every day?

In order to lose you must first have. 

Willingness is an indication of where you are emotionally.

See the good in the person and see the bad. That’s him. That’s all.

To have a relationship both people need to create (the opposite of being on automatic) the relationship, or there is no relationship.