In order to lose you must first have. 

Bad news is bad news because it drops your willingness to carry on.

When you need to confront something, you stopped being willing long ago.

It’s you that puts the resistance and unwillingness there. Put willingness there and resistance melts away.

The effort to be right is the basic problem.

The intention to be right - insisting on being right - is the basic wrongness.

The only reason you can lose or fail is insisting on being right or wrong.

Everything around you says, “Be the only one!” But the right way is to be everyone.

Be willing and you will be winning.