Love know compassion, but no concern.

Meditation is a flower, and compassion is its fragrance.

That’s good. Don’t be a miser about love. Be a spendthrift. The more you give, the more you will have. Love is something that you earn by giving it. If you hoard it, it dies and leaves black holes in your being. If you give it, it flowers and in your being you feel lotuses flowering.

Real love is considerate but has no concern.If you really love a man, you'll be considerate of his 'true need' but you won't show un-necessary concern for his foolish, stupid fantasies.'Consideration' means you will see that this isn't a real need but an 'ego need', you won't fulfill it.