...someone else is praying to have the kind of chaos you're currently crying about.

A goal is a dream with it's work boots on.

You're afraid that you suck. And - at least if you never try - no one (especially you) will be able to confirm that.Spoiler alert: This kind of thought doesn't come from an underachiever who's not good at anything.This kind of thought comes from a perfectionist. And truthfully? It's lame.There's so much incredible potential in you. But you're going to squander it because trying may or may not confirm that you're not as good as you thought you were.Stop being so hard on yourself!

If you're going to blame your hard times for all the things that are wrong in your life, you better also blame them for the good stuff too!" Rachel Hollis, Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be

I will not tell her that a man's work is only out in the world or that a woman's work is inside the home. If she chooses to stay at home, then we will support her with all our hearts; but we will never teach her that there's only one kind of woman to be.