In my experience, when you live with a woman for a long period of time, many of them start to remove what you consider “fun” from your life. It’s like they see your fun as a threat to them. They want your only fun, to be them. Sadly, by that stage, there isn’t much fun left in them, for you.

Things are rarely what they seem, especially in marriage.

Look back on your life and think about what caused you stress, unhappiness, embarrassment, and humiliation. It is unlikely you will find it was the Earth, the ocean, nature, the mountains, the plants, the animals, the wind, the rain, the snow, or the sun. It is likely you will find it was people, always the people, and the systems they created, such as work, money, laws, marriage, politics, and religion.

Marriage is when women finally get what they want, and men wave the white flag, unaware of the firing squad which awaits.

The problem with marriage is, after many years, you actually stop having meaningful positive sex, I mean sex becomes bad, negative, it will not only send you into a spiral of depression, it will also send you into an early grave.

All great men are pressured into getting married. And at that point, they fail to be great.

It's hard to get an exact match at the right time in your life, and even if you do manage that, things change, we change, that is why I am not a fan of marriage.