It's better to gradually rebuild the structure when it is still standing and looking good from outside; avoiding the cracks and waiting until all the uncertainties are satisfied, might be too late for a reaction.

If it matters, we do everything within or beyond our capacity to change it, the problem is not the problem we face, the problem is our attitude of accepting the problem and start living with it or make shift arrangements to survive, then nothing changes - it gets only worse.

If it matters, we do everything within or beyond our capacity to change it, the problem is not the problem we face, the problem is our attitude of accepting the problem and start living with it or get used to the temporary arrangements for survival, then nothing changes - it gets only worse.

The fear and problems live through us, the moment we consider them irrelevant & gather our armor to fight, they just die.

When I expected others to solve all my problems, my pool of problems got bigger because everyone expected to solve my problems kept pooling their problems in my pool.

A smile is the only thing which can be thrown at someone without getting into trouble. Today, smile at yourselves, smile at the new problems in life, silly ones, if they knew how the earlier ones were defeated they wouldn’t have entered your life. Also, smile at everyone who comes into your contact today, it's contagious, may it gives them strength to fight their problems.

Denial is denying the existence of a problem. It’s a standard tactic that substitutes deliberate ignorance for thoughtful planning. Denial is a liar, which compounds the problem by blocking our creative vision towards the possible solution. Denial is a deceiver too. It makes us do things that pleases us & not the things which can resolve the problem.Accept the truth, accept failure/defeat, accept pain.It’s the acceptance that brings the positive change.

Most of the times we work towards calming our nerves & adapting to live with the problems, rather than working towards finding a long-term solution to the problems, and when the problem returns we victimize ourselves to ease the pain of another inconvenience.

The biggest solution to any problem is the realization that every problem requires a different solution. Patch-up work may hide it for some time, but sooner or later a bigger & stronger stain will emerge.