If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit to them.

When you settle for anything short of the best life God wants to offer you, then you have been tempted to remain safe and the accountability for not changing your life becomes your prison of regret.

God didn’t design your life so you would constantly fall down, but he does hope that you will be brought to your knees.

In the end, a lack of compatibility is what ruins relationships. You can't force someone to be an eagle when they are a duck. Nobody wants to fly solo. Dreams were meant to be shared together.

Allowing a person or thing to leave your life, without further pain is the basis of humanity. Everything else is the reason (theology).

There is nothing spiritual about a marriage that uses guilt, blame, shame or religious manipulations to keep a relationship together.

It is hundreds of tiny threads of memories, which sew people together through the years. Despite, their mental separation they stay woven into that tapestry out of habit, emotion, obsession or fear.