She used all of her skills to charm me. I now know this was narcissistic charm and just a tactic of abuse.

Intuition - When shit just doesn't add up and you are confused about something, that is your intuition pointing out for for you to stop, look and listen because something is wrong.

Because you are so nice, beautiful and you have no boundaries, you are narc-bait.

Boundaries are guidelines, rules and limits we all must set to protect our time, heart, finances, etc. Without strong defined boundaries we expose ourselves to being abused by narcissists.

When confronted by a narcissist's lies - do not engage simply say 'that is one way to look at it' and walk away.

Intuition - Once you have had a narcissist in your life, you must develop your intuition and learn to listen to it and act accordingly.

Narcissists hate to get rained on because it ruins the mask.

Narcissists are lower than bullies, maybe pond scum! Lower...the fungus that feeds on the pond scum. Bullying is slow painful brain fuckery.

If you hold onto hurt and anger with a narcissist, the children will have no normal parent. The narcissistic parent will use them as puppets, lovebomb and abandon them. You are their only hope.